I wanted to pass on this article that I read recently and maybe start a discussion. Here is a small portion of the article. You read it in full here. I would encourage you to read it and then come back here.
So why haven’t we come of age? The reason is fairly simple—we can’t. Youth ministry is basically a mirror of what happens in the wider culture. If we look outside the church, we see that youth culture actually has conquered most aspects of contemporary life—so much so that it’s hard to talk of youth culture at all. Adults, young people, and children all share in a common, media-generated, consumer culture. Obviously there are different tastes and so on, but that hardly constitutes an entirely separate culture. Youth ministry hasn’t grown up. In fact, the church has become more adolescent.
This shouldn’t be surprising. Youth ministry and the wider church have simply followed what’s happened in the general culture. Far from growing up and leaving youth ministry behind, the adult church has increasingly adopted the styles and products of the youth scene. Youth ministry hasn’t come of age—it’s simply colonised the adult church.
I can’t help but agree with a lot of what the article discusses.
So where do we go from here?
As I have reflected on this article a few things came to my mind:
Greater Expectations
Just because our society says adolescence has been pushed into the 30s doesn’t mean that we should expect that. Instead I say we start expecting more out of our middle school and high school students. The “teenager” is an American invention that is really not that old.
Challenge
I still believe, and I doubt that I will ever change on this, that every student should spend a summer in another country (preferably third world) spreading the Gospel before they graduate college. I believe every student should at least be exposed to a third world country in missions before they graduate high school. Our teenagers have to learn Trigonometry and Calculus, and we teach “Chubby Bunny.”
Right of Passage
I still am thinking this thing out, but I really think that we are missing out here. I am still trying to figure this out when it comes to my own children, but I want to do things in their lives to mark accomplishments and initiate new frontiers for their lives.
Any thoughts that you would share?